I was in the postion u lot are talking about
Before i was born my dad and mum were togather, when they found out i was coming along . my dad up and left with saying a word. my mum had me with her family and my dads family around but not my dad. My mum tried to get him to see me and she even gave him a weekend with me but all he could say was i was not his, test were done and i was provened to be his. It took him six months to see me and another six months to sign the birth papers. In that time when i was eight months old and my dad had me for the weekend, he kidnapped me and take me up north in New Zealand. For three weeks i was with my dad, then he take me home, i don't know why and he has never told me.
my mum did it hard with me and my brothers but i wouldn't change a thing as she did the best she could for us, if any of our dads had no contact with us. she would say he will see u when he can and always left an opening for them to see us.
So even now when ur ex doesn't what to see her, let her get on with her life but always leave room for her dad as he might want to see her later on in life.
when she get older she will understand what happened and i now she won't blame u or her stepfater. just let her know she is loved by both her father and u.
Shazz and beautiful Sarah