I think we are all worried at the begining because we have such a sense of responsibility for our babies and almost an ownership feeling over them - you dont trust anyone else to care for them because you know if something were to happen the guilt would be suffocating.
Do you think you could still have PND, I suffered from it when my son was 4 months old and I recall on the questionaire and in the talks that these feelings you are experiencing, are a sign. Feeling constantly worried and fearing for the safety and well being of your baby. I really dont mean to upset you or get you down honestly but perhaps talking to your GP or CHN about your feelings would help.
Francine is very lucky to have such a wonderful caring mummy, but her daddy would like to bond with her to and of course they do have the right to care for their children too, even if we do a better job tongue . I think you should talk to someone professional about PND and the feelings your having before it really starts to affect your relationship.
Let me know what you think and if you want to tell me to shut up and butt out thats fine too, but please think about it smile