He is definatly not a bad person just had a night out and didnt think. He has been a great dad to our daughter, now almost 10 mnths, from day one was in love with her and insisted on doing everything with her, once she was on the bottle he would do the early 5am or 6am feed so i could sleep and would always offer to have her while i went to work, although i only did this once, he was great she was settled with out me there and it was great for the both of them and probably me too although i havnt really left her since.
Although now that he is away im finding it really hard, a true solo mum, although we always lived apart he was here often, now all the jobs are up to me, all the feeds, waking, bathing, as well as normal house hold chores. Is anyone else in the same or similare situation to me??
Do you think my baby will remember the year without him around, when he comes out she will be 16 months.
I do take her to visit him about every 6 weeks but its not really a place i want her to remember and when we are there i dont feel like she has a great bond with him, i hope this can be re built!!
NZ mum to 10 mnth old girl!!