I have a 3 1/2 yr old girl and a 1 year old girl. When our second was born, my husband did take care of our first but he does it pretty much only from home.
Both my girls would not feed from anyone else but me when they were little so he said it was really hard to bond. Even on the weekends now, he will take our eldest to watch the local footy (when he is not playing that is), but not both. If we are having a relaxing day, this means no sport on, nothing on tv, or just nothing to do, he will not even go for walks or a park or even play in the back yard.
I know he works hard during the week but I feel he lacks in the "father/children relationship". He will usually hire a movie and tell them to be quiet or put them in another room with their own movie on.
I need some help on trying to change his ways as they both adore him when he does pay attention to them.
SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME HELP!!!
Tania,Vic,2 girls 4 1/2 yrs & 22 month old