Maybe she doesnt know that losing weight is normal. maybe she doesnt know anything about breastfeeding. How about you get that chip off your shoulder and actually read what the others have written.
To the OP. like th others have said 4 days IS NOT ENOUGH TIME. you need to persevere. Breastfeeding doesnt just happen its a learnt thing by you and bubs. there are multiple places you can call for help. your husband buying formula in my opinion is not helpful in the slightest. sorry but a supportive husband/partner would have the aba on the phone step by stepping you through attachment and any other issues. A newborns stomach is the size of a marble- a teeny tiny marble. It needs to be filled reguarly and only with a tiny amount. It is not to late to put her back on the breast. just completely cut out the formula and over the next few days she will feed and feed until your milk starts meeting her requirements...
It is comments like that that make mothers first time or 10th time feel like ***!
sorry? your not sorry, he husband was doing what he thought was right for his wife and their baby! so yes i believe he did do the right thing by getting that formula! instead of talking down to her maybe support her! its tough being a mum and you know what your doing a great job, HER choice to FF should not make a difference!!
Im not pro bf or pro ff im pro what ever makes you feel better and start enjoying your time with bubs
1st baby due start of sep