I am due in June, but with my first pregnancy, my sister in law was pregnant at the same time I was. I was 9 weeks ahead of her. To this day I think it was planned, her pregnancy anyway. She wonted the same attention as I was going to get. Throughout the pregnancy we had people comparing us, oh she is bigger then you etc and it got really annoying, I just wonted to go through my prenancy without being compared to my sister in law. My son is now 2 and still being compared to his cousin who is 9 weeks younger. Things like, he is talking more then your little one, he is toilet trained before your one, and she always rang me whenever her little one did something, just to rub it in. I have learnt to ignore it, but it is annoying. In a way it is nice having the two boys close in age cause they can play with each other, but to compare isn't the nice thing. With the 2nd pregnancy I didn't tell her that we were planning on a 2nd, with the thought she would fall pregnant, she hasn't but is always talking about falling pregnant whether her partner likes it or not. I am just glad I have gone through this pregnancy without being compared to her.