Im 16 and 7 months pregnant, we are having a boy. Me and my boyfriend *Mitchell have been dating for 7 months - so yes we did jump into things straight away, when we both found out i was pregnant the best decision was to get an abortion as we felt this was right for us individually, but i was too far gone. I came to terms with this a few days before but now i am excited smile! ! ! Everything is going very well, i have great support and very good private health care.
i have this friend *teele, she is one year older than me and has OCD her case is moderate to severe and this affects her immaturity levels highly!! my mother has said so. when attention isn't on her shell do anything she can to get it, my mother has pointed this out, anyway whilst my boyfriend and i were going through the procedures of abortion ( blood test, referalls etc. ) she was mature about this, she came with me to the appt ( i never asked her to but she was with me at the time ) and she was mature about it, however since knowing that i am keeping the baby ( she has known for 3 months approx. ) her maturity levels sunk back down.
this girl is a very unhealthy girl in her mind, i have come to tell myself that its not a good idea i stay best friends with her so over the past month as we were both finsihing school ( her yr 12, me yr 11 ) i backed off a whole lot but as days go by and i saw her these are examples of things that make me not want to be friends with her no more and make me think its unsafe for my baby ( u may think im paranoid )
ok when we go shopping:
she tells me how to walk
she tells me that if she was pregnant she would walk around with her hand on her stomach.. and she does it. because she wants the public to think shes pregnant, this makes me feel highly awkward.
she told me the other day, she is jelous of me... why the hell would u be jelous of getting pregnant at such a young age? but i think this may be because ive made the best outcome for an extremely unexpected situation ( i am able to go to uni a year early, i still have my boyfriend around as she has toruble keeping a boyfriend, i have good medical assistance and great support )
she asked if she could look after the baby for a few days when he is born?? i think not
she said if i dont let her be in the childs life shell take me to court
she says she hopes i have a girl, cuz boy babys are ugly
shes going to buy girl clothes even if i have a boy
shes going to buy her OWN carseat for MY baby
she brought a baby tweety pie blanket for her car because she wants me to have a girl
at the after grad party, she was ACTING really really drunk and when she was walking/stumbling she was pulling ppl down, i got too close n she nearly pulled me over. me being pregnant n my hormones are emotionally on a rollercoaster i freaked n my brother looked at her like he was gonna hit her for it, but i just yelld " keep her away from me "she could have pulled me down n i could have hurt myself or the baby n its really serious.. i could have had damage all because she was acting drunk.
*mitchell n i both dont want her coming to the hospital so we are only going to have family visit n VERY FEW CLOSE friends like 3 or 4 come visit.
she goes on international chat rooms and meets these guys who live in townsville, then she tells her mum she knows them thru me. she gives her number, addy, HOME address n they go to her house n meet her then go driving around
it turned bad a few days ago when i found out one of the guys took her under a bridge and she had to perform oral s*x or intercourse with him, she said she gave him oral because she still wanted him to like her. mind u they dont talk anymore
she stresses me out n causes me anxiety its not good when ur pregnant n it wont be good when i have the baby, cuz if im upset the baby is too. i need to exercise while being pregnant but she says n screams " NO IMOGENE, UR GOING TO KILL UR BABY" she says i can only get morning sickness at the start. im pregnant i know i can get it anytime.
she yells in public that im pregnant n its really embarassing, like im not ashamed but she makes me feel is when she yells it.
she knows im having a boy and me and *mitchell are both excited about it. mum would like me to invite her to my baby shower as we have been close for years, but how do i say something after it ?
its an unhealthy friendship due to her unhealthy mind.