Ok I'll try to keep this short although it seems to be turning into a mellow drama.
Ex and I haven't been together for well over 4 years. He is in the process of selling his house and moving in with his GF of nearly 2 years and her 3 kids. He has always been a good father and an all round decent bloke. His GF on the other hand is VERY controlling and he gives in ALOT of the time just to keep the peace. His business, whatever floats his boat. My ex and I agreed that he have the boys one weekend me the next and so on. He would pick the kids up on the friday and drop off sunday night. We have had this arrangement for over 4 years, NOT BEEN A PROBLEM. He picks DS 13 up wednesday night to have dinner (something they worked out between them for wed nights)
My ex says he wants to talk to me about something. He asks if I can pick DS up from his GF's house. I ask "what tonight?" He says "no, whenever I have him I'll pick him up and you pick DS up from my GF's" I ask him why? His answer.....Because she keeps giving him Sh!t about it!......WHAT?
I asked him what the hell he was on about and he said he was getting cr@p from him GF because he had to drop DS off and that I should pick him up. Then he starts saying that its also costing him in petrol so I told him "Just pay me less child support....Oh wait....you already DO!" (I told him to pay $100 less than he was suppose to a month because he was struggling) I told him "no way in hell was I going to do it just because his GF demands it and is throwing hissy fits" and "if he was stuck and couldnt do it for what ever reason...no problem"
I could not believe my ears when he turned around and told me "well I cant have him then" FINE I said...so DONT
DS is sooooo upset and asked if he could ring his dad and ask if he was spending the weekend with him. He rang and Dearest Dad flat out said NO
Guess who the loser in all this will be
Ex and I haven't been together for well over 4 years. He is in the process of selling his house and moving in with his GF of nearly 2 years and her 3 kids. He has always been a good father and an all round decent bloke. His GF on the other hand is VERY controlling and he gives in ALOT of the time just to keep the peace. His business, whatever floats his boat. My ex and I agreed that he have the boys one weekend me the next and so on. He would pick the kids up on the friday and drop off sunday night. We have had this arrangement for over 4 years, NOT BEEN A PROBLEM. He picks DS 13 up wednesday night to have dinner (something they worked out between them for wed nights)
My ex says he wants to talk to me about something. He asks if I can pick DS up from his GF's house. I ask "what tonight?" He says "no, whenever I have him I'll pick him up and you pick DS up from my GF's" I ask him why? His answer.....Because she keeps giving him Sh!t about it!......WHAT?
I asked him what the hell he was on about and he said he was getting cr@p from him GF because he had to drop DS off and that I should pick him up. Then he starts saying that its also costing him in petrol so I told him "Just pay me less child support....Oh wait....you already DO!" (I told him to pay $100 less than he was suppose to a month because he was struggling) I told him "no way in hell was I going to do it just because his GF demands it and is throwing hissy fits" and "if he was stuck and couldnt do it for what ever reason...no problem"
I could not believe my ears when he turned around and told me "well I cant have him then" FINE I said...so DONT
DS is sooooo upset and asked if he could ring his dad and ask if he was spending the weekend with him. He rang and Dearest Dad flat out said NO
Guess who the loser in all this will be