But at the same time spending all day with just the kids is sending me crazy.
I had my first Son when i was 20 and at that point in my life i had more friend's than i could count or so i thought i did. Now that i have my 2 boys it seems like i just don't fit in anywhere amongst my former friendship group.
When i go out with them i feel like i'm so out of place. All they do is drink, party and go out and there's me not able to include myself as i am still breast feeding both my children. I wouldn't change that for the world i just wishmy friends could understand that. I still love to have fun just in other ways.
I have since made other friends but as their first borns have gotten older they have all reverted to their prior ways. I'm only 21 now and i'm finding it so hard to meet anyone in my age group that i can fully relats to.
I fell like i'm this mature old mother, infact i'm starting to remind myself of my mum with some of the things i say, it doesn't worry me that i'm growing up because i believe thats part of parenting but it's changing everything and see my friends as immature, but when i associate with older mothers who i feel i can relate to it seems i'm being judged for not having all the great things they do.. ie: fancy car, family home ect: ect: I know my partner and i are doing well for our circumstances but we just can't afford the best of everything.
Has anyone else experienced this feeling and have any suggestions on where to meet people who just enjoying spending quality time with their kids and doing things other than partying and carring on.
The Neverending Day...