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Hi All,

I am a little confused. my hubby came to me and asked if I would have sex or do things on web cam infront of people. At first I was a little un easy as I have a skin condition and a little over weight. Then I thought Ok I will do it for him, no matter how uneasy I felt. Then a few weeks later I found out that he had went on in private ( cant trace what he is doing) chatting to other women. (sex site) I think he is a cheater, cause I agreed to do it with him, but he hid it from me. Need a guys opinion!

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Hi All,

I am a little confused. my hubby came to me and asked if I would have sex or do things on web cam infront of people. At first I was a little un easy as I have a skin condition and a little over weight. Then I thought Ok I will do it for him, no matter how uneasy I felt. Then a few weeks later I found out that he had went on in private ( cant trace what he is doing) chatting to other women. (sex site) I think he is a cheater, cause I agreed to do it with him, but he hid it from me. Need a guys opinion!

Does nobody realate to this/?
Just showed my DP and his opinion is thats definately a NO-GO. Fair enough he may want to do these things but it is to be discussed and shared with YOU. Not secretly online with someone else. He thinks its classed as cheating and you should seriously talk to him about it.
My opinion is you shouldnt be doing anything YOU dont want to do. Its alright to support what he likes but if it makes you uncomfortable you shouldnt feel you have to do it.
Anyway I hope you get it sorted xxxxxxx
Doesn't sound right to me, sorry huh

Doesn't sound right to me, sorry huh


Same here.
That is so wrong, it most definitely is cheating, remember its not like watching porn if he is webcamming another woman because she is doing it for him! And he shouldn't have put you in a position to be naked in front of other people, they can screenshot you and it can spread all over the net. This guy sounds like a womaniser, and your not a piece of meat.
The problem is, if you tell him it upsets you he will just try and keep it a secret. Most men who do stuff like this online wont stop doing it sad

Don't know what advice to give you, but you are worth more than this.
Definitely, all men love to watch erotica and porn videos. My husband is no exception. But I was terribly annoyed by the dirty video and I found an alternative in the form of porn comics. I offered to watch it to my husband and he liked it. You can do the same, just go here.
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