With the first I was too scared to do anything. With the second, I was a little more relaxed, but because of bleeding, couldn't even do "it" on our wedding night or for 2 weeks after! LOL! DH got ripped! But we made up for it, trying to bring on labour in the last week. With the third, all was good, and we didn't stop. We had sex 4 times the week before she was born.