I kinda think that maybe they don't expect people our age to know what they want. I hear it all the time.
But I think the area I live in people sort of expect someone as young as I am with more than 1 kid would have to be "generously active". Cos its not uncommon. But I agree, its not neccesserily a bad thing, but where I live its increasingly younger girls (some as young as 15) making bad or careless decisions reguarding sex.
I know the feeling bout the "centre of attention SIL" I have one of them. My SIL has 3 kids, all 10 months off mine. So I'm expecting she'll be pregnant with her 4th shortly lmao. She's very competative but I think her biggest issue is that she has 3 brothers. Being the only girl I think shes threatened by all the 'intruding women'. My kids never have an opportunity to spend time with 'nanny' without her inviting her kids along too.
She also decided she had to get married before I did. All my life ive wanted to get married on a beach. It was always my idea for it to be alittle 'low key'. Cos i think a big wedding would frighten me. But me and DP discussed everything. It was pretty unique ideas too. We'de agreed to go low key and decided that he'd wear a tux top and boardies, to go with the beach thing too. But recently, SIL, announced her plans to get married next year. She told me of this brilliant new idea they had for the wedding. And she recited my entire plan. The funny thing was, while im sure she was aware she stole the idea i dont think she realised it was from me. tongue Not sure how i'll approach the issue though.
nah 6 week checkup next week.. can't wait tongue. i dunno why i look forward to them haha I always have smile
But yeah, (knock on wood) I'm feeling better than ever. apart from a few hiccups this week Liam sleeps all night, and my 1yo is sleeping through aswell for the first time. I took all 4 of em out alone the other day to a birthday party. I expected to have some trouble it was great grin