Hi there well as my title says, I wanna know what its really like going from 3 to 4 children. The good & the bad stories. I already have DS8, DD6 & DD3, i must admit having the 3 i have now at the age they are now is very manageable (2 are at school). But my husband has been at me for a year now to have another bub. Its not that i dont nessesarily want another bub but i just think of all the time a newborn takes up & dont think i could deal with that again. From what i have been reading on the internet (many sites) people are saying that if you have 3 then having 4 is a breeze cause you are used to the noise & chaos. My husband also works very long hours, leaving home at 5am & getting home around 7pm 6 days a week, so i would be "on my own" alot. Please help me make my final decision!!!
DS 9, DD 7, DD 4