We were only in SCN for 6 nights when DD2 was 2 weeks old, and I spent the nights there too. All the nurses were fantastic in their own ways, but some were that bit more special.
To me, the ones I felt more comfortable with chatted to me about things in the outside world to give me something else to think about (like whats been happening on neighbours, or any interesting news), they listened to what I had to say & when I asked questions about my daughter they answered honestly & to as much depth as they could, or got the doctor to chat to me if it was something they werent sure on, they didnt forget that I had not long had a baby & needed to look after myself too & asked if I needed anything (because it is easy to forget about yourself), they helped me pick up my daughter when she had wires hanging off her & told me what all the machines did, they were warm & approachable, came & said goodbye at the end of their shift, told me everything I needed to know when we first came to the SCN, admired my baby with me, asked me how I was going emotionally & physically & were aware that I was on a hormonal rollercoaster, & emotionally sensitive.
Some things that werent so great, some of the nurses seemed to expect me to know how things were run in SCN, like their system of expressing/storing & heating up milk, & when I asked them how, they got huffy. A couple of them didnt seem to understand why I wasnt comfortable bathing my baby by myself (hard time recovering from cs) which I thought would be obvious. Sometimes they came across as bossy & abrupt & being sensitive, I often took it personally.
Hope that helped. Sorry if some doesnt make sense, I am deeply deprived of sleep lol