I delivered a baby nearly 10 weeks ago and during labour suffered 3rd degree tears. My bub came through with her hand above her head and fist closed tearing muscles internally, I had to be cut externally to repair the internal damage. It took and hour to stich me back up!` Lucky I had an epidural so didnt feel a thing until the anasthetic wore off!!!!!
My ob/gyn said that it would take a good 8 weeks to feel back to old self again.
Once I had the 6 week check I was told that all was going great and was healing well.
We have had sex once which bought tears to my eyes because it hurt and I still get sore from time to time.
My hubby thinks that because I am healing and it has been 6 weeks all should be ok.
Am I being unfair? I just dont want to do it. What is the norm and has anyone had similar experiences?