Did they tell you just how intense those baby blues would be or how long they would last?
Did they tell you that sex can be painful even after a tear free birth or a C-section?
Did they mention the fact that you can feel so in love with your baby but want to be away from her because you cannot handle the crying anymore?
Did they tell you just how hard it can be looking after yourself and trying to look after your baby at the same time?
What about the stretchmarks?
The sagging belly?
The aches and pains that you thought would leave once baby came that are still there
That six to eight weeks for healing is a LIE!!!
It is going to take me approx 6 months to heal from this SPD muscle pain
what did you not know? what would tell someone to look out for who is having her first baby and has no idea what to expect???