Hi Claudia what a hell of a time you are no doubt having. My son had both colic and reflux so I can relate to you. We found Infants Friend a great help to us. We used this both before and after feeds. It is along the same lines as Infacol but you get it from a chemist. We use to massage our baby which involved warmed olive oil (just in your hand) rubbing it on the babys tummy. If you go in circles be careful to follow the bowel which is clockwise. You can massage their whole body but no doubt on no sleep and at 3 o clock in the morning this is the last thing on your mind!!!. You can help the baby by bending their knees up to their stomach gentle then straigthening them... repeat....... etc. We found our baby loved to have a foot massage. You can also but them in a bath which soothes them. My husband used to get in the shower and let the water run on the babies tummy and back. We also used a heated pack wrapped in a nappy (so as not to burn) on his stomach which also helped. I was unable to directly breastfeed so I expressed my milk and then gave it to my baby but have you contacted the Breast Feeding Association as they may be able to offer different positions to feed your daughter. You could also try putting her in her pram and just pushing it around the house as sometimes just the movement will help. The only other thing is to see a health clinic where a really good midwife or health nurse may be able to offer some other ideas. I was given a hand out from my midwife and it suggests trying any/all of the follow and go back to what works for you-: Sucking at breast- dummy or bottle, rocking or cuddling, carrying in a baby sling, walking with baby, driving in a car, raising the cradle or bassinet at the head end, warm water bottle over the babies tummy, warm bath, quiet feed times, change of scenery- music -vibrations, go outside the house, massaging, gentle exercises. We took our baby to a chiropractor for his reflux, I am not sure it they could help colic but perhaps it is worth a try. We also visited a bowen therapist who worked on him and showed my husband what to do next time. Sometimes it worked, but perhaps we were not doing it properly. But the main advice I can give is to look after yourselfs and try to get plenty of rest when you can. I can not stress enough the old rule of when baby sleeps you sleep and that goes for Dads too. Remember without sleep you can not function and 2 adults and a baby with no sleep is not a happy household. The housework is not going any where and dont be too proud to ask for help. Good Luck.