Hi danniL, i hope next bub will be diff this time. I did do all the correct things with Toby, he never fell alseep in my arms, and when somebody come over and he was asleep i never let them pick him up. i still think he did have alot of wind but i try so many ways and he never burp! My mum did tell me a sign of when they have wind is under there nose and above there top lip is blue. Not to worry all will be good i guess. How is everyone going? I have been very tired the past week all i want to do is lay down. and i had bad headache last friday. Dont know if it was from the heat or not. I am going to the doc today for blood test results. Talk soon and take care all.