I have been reading through all the replys thanks so much for all your help, advice and own experiences. I do feel a little more at ease now knowing that there are things I can do to may be help things along. No disrespect to those who have had a C-Section, I am just terrified of any major surgery, sometimes having a bit of medical knowlegde makes things worse. Keep any of your posts coming will be reading them over the next couple of weeks.
Thanks Heaps again everyone
just an update the thing still hasnt turned having a scan in two weeks
[Edited on 10/02/2008]