I am having my 1st in about 2 weeks & decided from day 1 i was having a Caesarean - i figured the list of pro's & cons for both were about the same but i also didn't wanna start a birth & then have them tell me she needed to come out emergency C.
I spoke to my dr, told him i wanted one although he argued, he did admit he cant force me to have her naturally so they really cant make you do anything you dont want.
You should be able to go in & see your dr whenever, especially with the fact you have your concerns & dont wanna leave it any longer.
My caesar was only organised & booked in last week. I was due June 15th/16th but she'll be here on the 6th coz they say about 10 days before the due date is the best time to have it done.
Hopefully that is of some help to you! Goodluck
Kel, SA, Mum to Lillian Rose - 06/06/06