Nothing i say will take any of Jess's family's pain, anger, terror, confusion away.
I feel so lost for words.
I am so sorry.
Please, can i share this poem with you Jess and everyone reading.........when i lost my best mate this was passed on to me by some random. To this day it is in my mind, i just feel like sharing it....sorry if im out of line or anything.
"Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
There is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well.
(Canon of St. Pauls Cathedral)
(1847 - 1918)
love to everyone. (((((((<3)))))))))