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TTC January 14 - New Beginning and Resolutions Lock Rss

Congrats Rachnzl smile You're due on my daughters 14th bday smile

If Im pregnant now (FX and yeah Im having a few symptoms but can't test till weekend) I'll be due on the 5th Oct.

Again congrats to BFPs
Oh congrats Rachnzl, thats awesome. I am so confused this month, the OPK's never showed a positive even with testing from day 9 till day 21 and testing more often than last month, always just got that 2nd faint line on OPKs which is a negative, so i have no idea when my period is due or if i ever ovulated. Didn't really get ovulation symptoms except for sore boobs for a week. AF was every 28 days, last month 32 days so will just have to wait and see. Ran out of Ovulation tests now so next month going to go back to using the ones i got a positive OPK with in December.
Updating the list smile

2WB

deja_nz, TTC #1, cycle 6, O due 27th Dec-2nd Jan
Samntink TTC # 3, cycle 2 (after BC) O due 13-14 th jan, AF due round 28th
amberAnn TTC #1 cycle 3 O due approx 15th Jan
MegzieB TTC #1 cycle 5 (after ectopic) O due approx 23rd Jan
Lana_J, TTC #1, Cycle 12 (after MC) O due approx 27th or so.
Miss Mia TTC #1, Cycle 10, O due 26-31 Jan
Catchoo TTC #2, cycle 4, O due 28 - 30th Jan

2WW

MeggyMeffen TTC#2 cycle 1 (after stilborn twins) AF due Jan sometime
Chickadee TTC #1 cycle (given up counting), AF due early jan
Blessedwithone, TTC #2, Cycle 24 (sigh) AF due approx 15-18th Jan
MelzieM, TTC #2, cycle 1, AF due approx. 20th Jan.
Hopeful_Kel ~ TTC #2 (#1 for hubby) cycle 17 (I think) AF due 24th Jan
Jeanie736 TTC : cycle 2 (after mc) AF Due 26th Jan
tarstars TTC #1 cycle 2 (long cycles) AF due 14-17 Jan
myunexpectedblessing TTC #2, cycle 7, AF due approx 24th Jan
*Beaker* TTC#1, Cycle "9" of 17, AF due approx 29th Jan - Not testing early!
Loz80 TTC#3, Cycle 1 (after mc), AF due approx 27th Jan
Carrie85 TTC#5 cycle 1 (after mc) AF due around 17th Jan.
butterflylove TTC #1 cycle 3 (after mc) AF due around 31st Jan
Dom82 TTC#1, cycle 2, AF due 30 Jan- 1st of Feb?
Happy Wifey TTC #1 cycle 16, AF due 31 Jan

BFP
Bex3330 - due 22nd Sep
Rachnzl - due 3rd Oct
Little beans - due 27th - 30th Sept
Hi all. Have been TTC baby number 3 for 5 cycles now. Had a horrific missed miscarriage in August 2013 where I lost 2.5 litres of blood sad Have gotten pregnant straight away with other two kids, so this is a new experience. Cycles have been varying lengths and I get terrible pre menstrual symptoms, all of which I never had before last pregnancy. CD 28 today, going to test tomorrow but think I already know it will be BFN. Great to have found this forum and good luck to everyone x
Yay finally some more BFPs!!!! Congrats ladies smile
Mrs West wrote:

No didn't really have to convince them to test, basically theres a list of tests that the fertility specialists want done if you are considering referral so GP should have that list and be able to give you the order form for them. If your doctor doesn't have the list its on fertility associates website under information for GPs. They should be happy to do tests for you especially if you say you have abnormal cycles, concerns about luteal phase etc. They will probably also recommend your partner has semen analysis which is a good thing to do too. Good luck!


Thanks for that. I'm think I'm going to see how I go for the next month or so and then maybe request the tests. I have a busy time coming up with going back to work (I'm a teacher) so it might be good to take my mind off it all for a bit and like you suggested give my body some more time to sort itself out.

Congrats to the BFPs!
There's a lot of very generalisation going on here tonight ladies. I'm feeling a tad offended. I am in the category you would all consider 'easily falling pregnant'. I'll have you know that I know exactly how lucky I am and if I could change the struggles that so many women have, I would in a heartbeat. But
I can't. I know you are hurting and frustrated and just wanting what you're wanting, but don't blame others for falling pregnant easily. They don't choose for it to be this way.
Loz80 wrote:
There's a lot of very generalisation going on here tonight ladies. I'm feeling a tad offended. I am in the category you would all consider 'easily falling pregnant'. I'll have you know that I know exactly how lucky I am and if I could change the struggles that so many women have, I would in a heartbeat. But
I can't. I know you are hurting and frustrated and just wanting what you're wanting, but don't blame others for falling pregnant easily. They don't choose for it to be this way.


how about how we feel when people complain ita been 3 months and not pregnant yet? I didn't ask to have fertility problems as much as people don't expect to fall pregnant easily, but unfortunately its life. People are entitled to their feelings no matter being upset they aren't pregnant straight away, or that they have suffered a huge emotional and financial journey to have a baby. It brings out awful emotions. And no one is proud of them. I hate how TTC makes me feel. No one is blaming anyone! Life happens in strange ways and its no ones fault, we can only deal with it.

this forum is to support each other and we support no matter pregnant first cycle, or through the journey of infertility and the emotions that brings.

And to add to that. I'm a little offended you would even write that post tbh. I suffer so much heartbreak every month I am not pregnant or my husband is away and I can't conceive, driving 6 hours return in a day to scan to see if my clomiphene has worked.. And I have never ever told someone I'm offended they are upset its been a few months with no bfp. and good for you that you feel blessed and lucky for your quick conceptions, but not every women is so seeing of that fact and it can be difficult as someone long term ttc/fertility issues sometimes being surrounded by friends/family with bfp, but here is supposed to be a place to vent without judgment as we all know how crazy ttc makes us.

sometimes you'll read things here you may not relate to - so don't reply. I often don't if its sensitive to me. But I am always happy for the ladies getting their BFPs no matter their journey. Just because friends/family bfp hurt us doesn't mean we aren't happy for them either.

I absolutely agree everyone is here to support everyone. This is my point. I can only imagine how you feel, but how do you think I feel I am made to feel when people with fertility issues make me feel like I don't deserve my children, because it didn't take me over a year to conceive them. Or how do you think I feel when I break the news of a pregnancy to friends that do have fertility issues. It breaks my heart. But as you say, it's life.

If people without fertility issues are to be supported, then they shouldn't be made to feel like they don't understand or know how lucky they are.
How are you made to feel you don't deserve your children? I don't believe anyone I know doesn't deserve their children. Their announcements might upset me because it brings up my hurt, but I never tell them that and I am ALWAYS happy for everyone.

And if you have friends with fertility problems you should be supporting them and understanding while it may be upsetting for them, they aren't upset with YOU. Their journey is an ongoing painful one. I don't blame anyone for their pregnancies. One of my SIL got pregnant accidently - I have a beautiful niece. The other took a year. Yeah I'm sad its not me yet but its not their fault.

And I don't think I deserve my BFP more than anyone else, even given my struggle. I believe they're going to people who need them more than me first, and my time will come when it's meant to.

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