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Sad to hear about you. It is really a hard thing to face. But you need not lose hope. Because when you lose hope, you lose everything. IVF is a good thing. But sometimes it fails. Sucess rate of surrogacy is too much high. It is also a secure way of getting a baby. My vote is for surrogacy. Best of luck whatever you do. God bless you.
Hey, I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. MC news is so heartbreaking. Just stay strong! I know it is easy said than done but just try. Both the treatments you have mentioned have proven to be quite successful. IVF has about 60% chance of success. This rate is quite high and would mean it will probably work. For IVF you need to have a functioning uterus and also good quality eggs. However, if you decide to go for DE then things would be different. For the treatments just make sure that the clinic you visit has a high success rate. For surrogacy, you also need to make sure that the clinic is operating legally. Do check their rules and regulations. The one I'm currently visiting also provides you with child's documents so that we don't have to deal with any complications. Also, the surrogate has to get medically tested to ensure her and babies safety. I hope I was able to help you out. Sending baby dust your way.
Hi Gorgeous, Hope You are doing well. I am sorry to hear about you. Do not lose hope. Be brave my friend. I suggest You go for surrogacy. As You have many miscarriages, I think IVF does not suit you. Moreover, You must consult your doctor.
All my sympathies are with you.
Jenelia, I can relate to your pain and struggles. Been there many times. Well, miscarriages don't make us less fertile, but doctors ay of you have recurrent 3 miscarriages then it is a concern. But age does play a major factor in determining your fertility. Moreover, the reasons for miscarriages could be many. But it is advised to see a good RE for further evaluation. However, your decision for IVF and surrogacy is not bad. But you must seek the help of a fertility specialist in order to determine your chances of conceiving. IVF takes at least 2 rounds to be a success and sometimes doesn't guarantee a success. Therefore. if you are uncertain of how much cycles will it take to get you pregnant then surrogacy is a better option. Research good clinics on your country's database and choose one which has a higher number of success rates. Because quality is important over quantity. And surrogacy abroad will save you many bucks and also keeps you from hassles of US and UK courts. Hope this has helped.
Hey, I hope you're doing fine. I'm sorry about your miscarriages. I know you feel terrible. I'd advice you to go for an IVF treatment. As you want to experience pregnancy. If you select a well-reputed clinic, you surely will succeed. I hope you become a mother soon. Lots of love and prayers for you!
Hi Jane! How are you? Hope you are in good health. So sorry to hear about your problem Hun. Don’t give up hope. I am glad that you are considering alternative ways to start your family. Everyone deserves to be a parent and You should go for it. In my opinion I would suggest that you go for surrogacy instead of IVF simple because it is not painful and it is a sure shot. I also went for surrogacy as my way out of infertility. Ukraine has some of the best clinics for surrogacy and IVF. I recommend that you look them up as they can help you out greatly. I wish you the best of luck. Hope everything works out.
Jenelia, I can understand you. I have been through the same pain. I know it's not easy. The journey is really long. And it is really hard. But you have to choose an alternative. I did not go for surrogacy or IVF. I think that there are many kids without parents who need the love of parents. I adopted two kids. First I adopted a boy who was 8 months old. When he was 3, we adopted a girl who was 1 year old. My DH and I are really glad about our decision. We feel really happy to adopt the kids. But of course, the choice is yours. You can choose whatever you want. I am sure everything will be fine. Good luck with your decision.
I am really sorry to hear about all this. I know you must be having a hard time. Things have not gone the way you wanted them to. But there are so many options you can go for. I know it's not easy for you. It's really hard to deal with infertility. I have seen so many close people who are going through this. It breaks my heart to see them all in pain. And of course, when I see people sad about this on these forums, I feel even worse. You all don't deserve this. I wish I could remove all these problems. But unfortunately, it's impossible. Maybe you can go for IVF or surrogacy? Have you given it a thought?
Surrogacy has been a good thing for me after all.I read about surrogacy alot.I heard people talking about it mostly on the forums or on different social platforms.
I had hystrestomy cancer.I am cancer free but i can't be a mom anymore.I was ver upset and stressed.But my husband was there to support me.He assured me that he will do everything to have us a baby.
So we came to know about surrogacy.Firstly we both searched about surrogacy we understood every aspect of surrogacy.Than we moved to Europe from Japan.Japan has banned surrogacy totally so we moved.We stayed in Europe for 4 months and consulted some clinics too.
but due to several reasons my husband was not very satisfied.Then we moved to Ukraine.We heard from many people about many clincis in Ukraine.Ukraine is very popular as per surrogacy.In Ukraine we contacted a clinic and than the clinic started our journey of surrogacy.
Now the surrogate mother is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited to have our own babies now.
I am so sorry for you. I know it must be so hard for you. I have seen many people facing such type of problem. I think IVF and surrogacy both are amazing. In IVF you can have your own baby. But in Surrogacy someone else carries a baby for you. In my opinion, surrogacy should be given priority. I have seen many couples who are happy after having surrogacy. It is the safe and sound procedure. I also have a baby through surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. They gave me a surrogate too. It is hard to find a surrogate on your own. I am so happy that I chose it. I am a happy mother now. I have no more worries.
I think you should go for surrogacy. It is a safe procedure. I have met some people who were not able to conceive naturally. They opted for surrogacy for themselves. My friend was an infertile woman. She faced it for 7 years. She wanted a baby badly. In this time her husband also became infertile. They both were so upset. In the end, they both decided to choose surrogacy. They went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic provided them with a healthy surrogate. They were so happy that their dream was becoming true. They are happy parents now. They have a daughter of 9 months.
I have been in the same boat as you are in. It's very painful. I feel like my world has ended. I don't know what I should do. I really wanted to have a baby of my own. My friend is suggesting me surrogacy. I think I'll search for it. I think you should do the same. We don't have another option, I guess. Search on the internet about it. You'll find loads of information on it. Read everything. See if you want to go for it. Don't do anything forcefully. Do what you think is right. Do what gives you happiness. I am sure things will work out for you. I am really hopeful for you. And for myself. Hopefully, we both will be moms soon. Wish you good luck, sweetheart!
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