Posted by: wicki
I understand what you are tryign to say, but the fact is I have had both vaginal and c/s births.
Ahhh, see there was me making assumptions again. LOL
I'm not up for a debate either, sometimes just getting it all out, whatever your position can hopefully bring a bit of insight into the situation; but as you said, I guess unless you've been there you can never fully understand.
Sometimes people say hurtful things, intentionally or otherwise and it can be hard to cope with, especially if it is all still fresh in your mind and having a traumatic situation like that isn't something you can just "get over" in a short space of time I imagine. No comparison here really, but my father died just over 10 years ago and to this day I have moments where it feels like it was only yesterday and I wonder if I'll ever truly get over it. We were extremely close and it hurt alot and I have days where I just sit and cry for hours because life feels so empty now with him gone..........but at the same time I wonder if my life would be the same had things turned out differently then; would I have chosen the same paths, met the same people or would have fate sent me off in an entirely different direction?
Sometimes I think we all need lessons in sensitivity, but that's me. LOL