We have a 10mth boy and have decided to TTC#2, i have heard it takes a lot longer to conceive after #1. I stopped the pill and fell pregnant with #1 straight away, this time i have been off the pill for almost 4wks.
If i'd known it was going to take longer this time i would have started trying earlier.
What i'm getting at... is to remember that the longer you leave it the longer it could take and the older your daughter will be.
Our son is really placid and we wanted our children close in age, that's the reason why we are TTC#2.