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Hey del there's actually a chemist warehouse up the rd from me.. I've heard of sperm max do they sell it there?? Thanks for ur tips!! Jen all I have to say is OMG! You know exactly how I feel .. I had all these plans and a set way of doing things.. Well so I thought anyway.. I didn't even stay with my son the first wk it happened.. Everytime I saw his face I'd break down and all I could think of was here's the child that I bought into this world who's never going to know his dad (at the time drs gave him 24hrs to live) it was so hard so 1 of my brothers n sister inlaw looked after him for more than a wk... I couldn't bear to see him and to this day I hate myself for it.. I'm starting to see a counselor nxt wk as the nature of the event was violent which I unfortunately witnessed so victims of crime is funding my counselling.. Im really excited about it i hope it teaches me to be a bit more calm...Hopefully we all get our BFPs soon!! How long have u been trying

Hey del there's actually a chemist warehouse up the rd from me.. I've heard of sperm max do they sell it there?? Thanks for ur tips!! Jen all I have to say is OMG! You know exactly how I feel .. I had all these plans and a set way of doing things.. Well so I thought anyway.. I didn't even stay with my son the first wk it happened.. Everytime I saw his face I'd break down and all I could think of was here's the child that I bought into this world who's never going to know his dad (at the time drs gave him 24hrs to live) it was so hard so 1 of my brothers n sister inlaw looked after him for more than a wk... I couldn't bear to see him and to this day I hate myself for it.. I'm starting to see a counselor nxt wk as the nature of the event was violent which I unfortunately witnessed so victims of crime is funding my counselling.. Im really excited about it i hope it teaches me to be a bit more calm...Hopefully we all get our BFPs soon!! How long have u been trying



Don't be too hard on yourself. You were protecting him. The hardest thing for me was making myself smile and laugh for my daughter while I was screaming inside. I used to get up at 3am and feed her, put her back to sleep then go outside alone and cry and cry. It was the only time I was by myself. I tried so hard not to let her see my pain. I just wanted to shield her... eventually I was numb to everything. Talking about it now make it so raw. I am not sure you ever really get over it.

In answer to your question - we tried naturally for 12 months. I was surprised that we didn't fall because I fell first try with DD. Went and saw a doc and she said, because of my age, I should head straight for the fertility clinic. So here I am in my second round of IVF still wondering why its not working.

We are going to do this cycle and if it is unsuccessful we will stop trying and just focus on DD and the rest of our lives. I might even get a job. unsure

Anyway. I hope you have better luck next month. I am on here pretty regularly if you want to chat again. Its been really great for me to know that I am not the only one so thank you for sharing. smile

Jen

Hey del there's actually a chemist warehouse up the rd from me.. I've heard of sperm max do they sell it there?? Thanks for ur tips!! Jen all I have to say is OMG! You know exactly how I feel .. I had all these plans and a set way of doing things.. Well so I thought anyway.. I didn't even stay with my son the first wk it happened.. Everytime I saw his face I'd break down and all I could think of was here's the child that I bought into this world who's never going to know his dad (at the time drs gave him 24hrs to live) it was so hard so 1 of my brothers n sister inlaw looked after him for more than a wk... I couldn't bear to see him and to this day I hate myself for it.. I'm starting to see a counselor nxt wk as the nature of the event was violent which I unfortunately witnessed so victims of crime is funding my counselling.. Im really excited about it i hope it teaches me to be a bit more calm...Hopefully we all get our BFPs soon!! How long have u been trying


Yes honi u can get all the vitamins I mentioned at the wearhouse. SpermMax is great. The Vitamin C nd the Zinc will stop his swimmers from going clumpy.

Good luck sweetheart Xxxx

The dr said if I implanted on CD 28 (the last possible day of implantation) the pregnancy hormone isn't detectable yet.



I dont get that bit. Why is CD 28 the last possible day of implantation?

I took 1 cycle of clomid that was unsuccessful. The next cycle I had to do without clomid, I ovulated on CD 38, I had implantation spotting on CD 51 and now I am pregnant. Thus why I am confused about the above quote.

Not everyone ovulates on CD 14. I implanted 13 days after ovulation, and it worked out well.

The OP said she didnt know when she ovulated. Also, just because a woman has regular 28 day cycles, it doesnt mean that they ovulate on CD 14. Some women have long or short luteal phases. Also, some regular 28 day cycle women dont ovulate every month either.

Sorry, but one pet peeve I have is people (especially FS and gyno's) saying that women only ovulate on CD 14.

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