Hi
I'm beyond terrified to have a 2nd child after the birth of my 1st son. He was 5 weeks early and born breech, naturally without drugs. He was supposed to be a c-section baby but they didn't believe i was in labour and sent my partner home. My partner arrived back just in time for our son to arrive, not breathing and blue. It took 10 minutes to get him breathing and then even more unthinkable's ( I can not go into detail) but our son ended up from a country hospital to the city to have a full thickness skin graft at 3 weeks of age due to 3 paediatricians neglect and non willingness to accept responsibility for their actions. My son now has a long road of surgeries till he stops growing at age 25! AS MUCH as i would like to give him a brother or sister the thought terrifies me. Nearly 3 year on i'm still so upset and angry about what these still practising doctors did to my son that having another child makes me think the same would happen. Has anyone overcome their fears?
I'm beyond terrified to have a 2nd child after the birth of my 1st son. He was 5 weeks early and born breech, naturally without drugs. He was supposed to be a c-section baby but they didn't believe i was in labour and sent my partner home. My partner arrived back just in time for our son to arrive, not breathing and blue. It took 10 minutes to get him breathing and then even more unthinkable's ( I can not go into detail) but our son ended up from a country hospital to the city to have a full thickness skin graft at 3 weeks of age due to 3 paediatricians neglect and non willingness to accept responsibility for their actions. My son now has a long road of surgeries till he stops growing at age 25! AS MUCH as i would like to give him a brother or sister the thought terrifies me. Nearly 3 year on i'm still so upset and angry about what these still practising doctors did to my son that having another child makes me think the same would happen. Has anyone overcome their fears?