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This is really frustrating for someone not to conceive after trying hard. But don't be hopeless. Just wait for a good time to come. I have been waiting for more than 8 years. And finally, I succeed. Being a mother of 10 months old son. Though I don't try to be a second child mom yet.
I can feel what you are going through. First of all, change your routine. Try to eat healthy food only. Avoid smoking, drinking or any kind of that stuff. If no treatment is working for you then you should look into surrogacy. It's a great procedure and successful too. But make sure the clinic you are opting for has a high success rate. Stay blessed.
I can understand what you are going through. I have been on this journey for more than 5 years. Therefore, every day I get frustrated about how things are. This journey has been like a roller coaster for me. There are so many highs and lows. I remember one day I started to tear up in front of my DH. I told him that I was done with trying. He, however, gave me the strength and told me that he was with me. I guess that support is what I really wanted. I am now visiting a clinic for my process that he searched about. I am really hoping that things go well. They seem quite promising. Hoping for the best. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
The pain you are coping with is something I have coped with as well. I can understand you must be feeling numb now. But don't worry everything will be fine. You still have one option on the table for you, Surrogacy. It's a good procedure, you should do some research on it. Good luck.
Hello. Hope you are feeling better now. I don't know what exactly is bothering you. You haven't exactly specified it here. But I hope you feel better soon. Try to distract yourself from these frustrations. Things will work out.
Hi there! I know how difficult this is. But you need to stay strong. The best place to start from is changing your routine, if you change your routine to healthy routine things will start to change. After that when you are ready, opt for a treatment which is best for your case. Good luck!
As for the smoking, you can quite it without any energy wasted on keeping your willpower guard up. Just get a vape and some nicotine-free juice. That's how you will substitute your dependency on nicotine and then you can quit smoking pretty much effortlessly. Start from here https://deliciousnimbus.com/collections/premium....
That's fine if you are frustrated. Everybody is. And the more you try the less you get. Sometimes it happens. I suggest you see a therapist or something. And I am not trying to come off condescending or anything. I have benefited from seeing one and it helped me a lot. I have been through 5 m/c back in the days. And now I am totally fine with myself. We have even made some progress in the making of a family. We have turned to surrogacy. And now our SM has already had her ET. We are waiting for updates about her pregnancy status. Fingers crossed. But it is not like we are that nervous. We have been there. And now we have decided to stop worrying. And to start living our best lives. Yes, we desperately want to have kids. But if this time around does not work out we will try again. And then we will decide if it is even for us. We are old enough. And honestly, this is what bugs me. Not the fact that we have been trying for 20 years almost. But the thing that it is soon going to be too late.
But even if you do not get what you want now, you still have a lot of options left. We were thinking about volunteering. You know, there are a lot of kids that need support. Like we could've gift someone with college funds or something. But we are optimistic about this time. The agency we have signed with (WCOB) hasn't disappointed us so far. And we are happy we chose them over all of the others.
Hey, I can understand how frustrating it can get. However, my advice to you would change your dietary habits. Just make sure that important micro and macronutrients are part of your diet. On the other hand, avoid eating junk food. Start exercising and also do yoga. Both of these things will really help. Other than that get a second opinion on your condition as well. If you think you should be transferred to a specialist.
I can understand what you are going through. I have been on this journey for more than 5 years. Therefore, every day I get frustrated about how things are. This journey has been like a roller coaster for me. There are so many highs and lows. I remember one day I started to tear up in front of my DH. I told him that I was done with trying. He, however, gave me the strength and told me that he was with me. I guess that support is what I really wanted. I am now visiting a clinic for my process that he searched about. I am really hoping that things go well. They seem quite promising. Hoping for the best. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
Hi, hun! I'm sorry for what you are through. As you can see from all these posts you are in good company and will find plenty of support here.
Infertility struggles consumed us for yrs. Though I already have a 2,7 yo kid conceived naturally the wish to have another one was stronger every other day. We'd been ttc for 18 months with no luck. I tried changes in lifestyle, doing sports, supplements and acupuncture. But this wasn't working. I got fed up with all 'ifs' we might face on the way. Thankfully dh was a rock of support – he was the one to keep me sane. Soon we headed off for ivf abroad. Used donor egg. But I was sure then and now, biology means nothing to me...Then it was all about MY child...I'm glad you've made steps forward, hun. May your way be smooth and comfortable. Hugs! smile
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