I dont know about you other ladies "wanting to be mums" but i find this forum great. I often log onto [email protected] NZ site and its great and there is often a thread about those trying and different things however it quickly becomes full of those who are preggers and thats great too (dont get me wrong my so happy for those ladies) however its nice to have these threads as at time is feel like that is something "wrong" with me and to keep coming back here is good as it is specifically for those planning and trying.