Hi, I would say have them close togehter. I have got a 5 year age gap between mine and they fight all the time. A very good friend of mine has got 4 kids and has an 8 year age gap between the 1st and 2nd and 18 months between 2nd and 3rd and 2 1/2 between 3rd and 4th and she thinks that it was easier with a close age gap. If you want to have another now go for it I say. I wish that I could of had mine close together but i took over 2 years to get pregnant the secound time.