We have a DS 3 years 2 months and a DD 12 months, and I am 16w3days pregnant. I am tired all the time and am trying to stop breastfeeding DD.
My DH was understanding while I was vomiting all the time but now that I am feeling well again he wonders why I am not keen for sex.
I love my husband (although he has been getting on my pregnancy nerves a bit lately, stupid things like washing up/kids etc) and I would love to make love and be close to each other - I just not feeling sexual.
I have no problem having sex for him, but he then complains that I'm not enjoying it so why bother. I can only be so enthusiastic after being awake from 5am with two full on children and knowing I will be awake half the night to our DS because of nightmares.
My husband is by no means a SNAG and can be quiet insensitive in things he says sometimes and despite me telling him how I feel he just doesn't get it. "How 'bout it"? and "Got your clothes off yet?" are not wonderfully romantic come on lines to me.
What should I do?
Hayley, NSW, Liam 07/02, Beth 09/04, Nate 03/06