i have two boys that are thirteen months apart. and i know for a fact that i wouldnt have it any other way & way you can do all the things with the children that older mums cant no offence lol
togeter as they are in the same age bracket, its kind of like twins actually.,lol but it can be very tiresome as well but very rewarding i found it very good with me as one grows the other child groes into the siblings other clothes but as i am a young mother as well i found it good to have them young as you can enjoy it all with them being young and not to old to get around, and they do grow a very special bond togther thats inseperable.& quick i think the foundation for having them so close togther is perfect.
i think your husband was a little selfish and arrogant about the whole subject at hand and that he should have discussed the matter with you on a adults propective, not being childish about it., i think maybe he doesnt want to hurt your feelings as maybe he dont want anoter one and thats is way of saying no,
givin you excuses that the house is like a pigsty ,and every mother will tell you the same when children are born the house is never the same again!! it a callenging keeping it clean at times i manage it tough!! but if your picking up everyting after tem every 5 mins, its not healty for you or your children as you get mad and flustrated ect just be a mum and dont wory want he says!!!
i know as if you feel its you thats not good enough honey but believe me its his loss. dont feel as if your not good enough im sure your a really pretty young lady. and a threffic mother, why dont you tell me how you feel .? id say your response would be feelin inaquadte as a mother house cleaner and wife!! but were not all the super nanny!!! i think he needs to go see dr phil!!, no your not over reactin but i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. i believe havin just one child isnt healty for your child and if you are lonin for another child you should talk to him as it been known to wreck marrigaes maybe hes givin excuses as he dont want another one and doesnt want to say no straight up. and maybe he feels a little jelous as his reactions he displays are jelousy. so i say ive im the ultamatium you will know his real feelins 100% let me know how you go,.
chin up honey
mother of three beautiful children