hi,
not sure if anyone else is in this situation, but i just want to vent.
im 28wks with my little princess. last week my partner sat me down and said he loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore. he said ive been moody and he has found it hard to know how im going to be at any time. he has moved out and is staying with a mate of his. whilst we have been trying to talk and work things out, i now have the very real reality that i may be a single mum. i am so scared. i know im going to struggle financially, and whilst my family, and his, will be there to help, i feel this is my life over with. dont get me wrong, but this pregnancy wasnt exactly planned. i am angry at him because he can be a 'sometimes' father. he can come and go and when he is gone, he can be dating etc, but me, i feel this is it. i grew up in a single parent home, and my mum hardly ever dated. and is now on her own.
i am scared and really dont know what to do. dont even know if i should be trying to work things out, or just start focussing on what im going to do and concentrating on that.
thanks for allowing me to vent smile
not sure if anyone else is in this situation, but i just want to vent.
im 28wks with my little princess. last week my partner sat me down and said he loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore. he said ive been moody and he has found it hard to know how im going to be at any time. he has moved out and is staying with a mate of his. whilst we have been trying to talk and work things out, i now have the very real reality that i may be a single mum. i am so scared. i know im going to struggle financially, and whilst my family, and his, will be there to help, i feel this is my life over with. dont get me wrong, but this pregnancy wasnt exactly planned. i am angry at him because he can be a 'sometimes' father. he can come and go and when he is gone, he can be dating etc, but me, i feel this is it. i grew up in a single parent home, and my mum hardly ever dated. and is now on her own.
i am scared and really dont know what to do. dont even know if i should be trying to work things out, or just start focussing on what im going to do and concentrating on that.
thanks for allowing me to vent smile