my partner wants to put photos of baby to be up on facebook.
I am not happy about this and have convinced him to wait untill tests are all done before he can put them up BUT .. I still dont want him to put them up on facebook. I dont want my uterus plastered all over his facebook it makes me feel violated.
I dont want people commenting on them especially people i dont know and he is still friends with an ex - and other person who i have asked him to cease all contact with. bottom line i dont mine them as a screen saver on his computer but i feel this is my right being taken away to having privacy.
I have not posted ANYTHING about my pregnancy on facebooks - no photos of me or baby or status updates even to indicate that i am i keep my life private where possible AM I being reasonable saying NO to having pictures on facebook of our baby
I don't think it is unreasonable at all. I think the real issue here is the lack of regard for your opinion. If you don't want them posted in public then that should be respected.
They are after all, quite personal in my opinion. For example one of my ultrasound pictures has a measurement of the length of my vagina. The rest of it, although all internal is still pictures of your reproductive system.
You wouldn't post pictures of his reproductive system with a measuring tape next to it and say, well, it's in black and white and it's a bit hazy and we have conceived a baby out of these parts so it's all ok and it's my right to share!
Haha, or would you? wink
ok, just wanted to add a few points since so many misread this post!
I have not stated that u/s pictures are inappropriate.
I have not said that all my pics contained the length of my vagina, just one of them and that is a fact.
I have not stated that I look at u/s pictures and think look at the size of her uterus.
I have not said my u/s pictures embarrass me.
Last of all, the comparison between reproductive systems was a joke.