I am a little mortified by the harshness - i think im entitled to see what other people did. the feeling i had were my own and was reaching out to see what others did you chose to do what you wanted which is fine i respect that but theres no need to belittle me for not wanting to wave the another girl whos pregnant at the moment flag - i value my privacy you are entitled to an opinion but you really didnt need to go to those lenghts to make me into some kind of ogre its not what its about
Unfortunately I think you'll find that there are some on here that don't respect others opinions if they're not the same as their own.
Even when they obviously haven't got a clue as to what it is they are objecting to.
As for fb and huggies. I think they're different. One is anonymous (huggies) and the other has your real name attached.
My reasoning for not posting my u/s pics on fb is quite simple. It has to do with an ex. My abusive ex, whom I don't want to know that I am pregnant because I'm scared he will cause trouble for me. He is blocked but there are plenty of people on there that can tell him. In that case, hmm, think my pictures are rather personal for me. I never said peoples u/s pictures were inappropriate, just personal. I've shared mine with family and friends in person though.
It's good to see you reached an agreement with him. Hopefully it's the first step towards many more positive outcomes for you.
Wish you all the best smile