I was very sick when I had my daughter, so my poor partner missed out on sex for a long time, we just did other things, like give him body massage's involving his WHOLE body, use what ever you both agree on, weather it be oil, jelly, cream (the eating type) body chocolate, or what ever you can find to use. Also try just giving him oral sex or use your hands only.
If you do this for a little while he still gets his pleasure and love but you get to repair from child birth.
After a little while of doing this you will start to like the idea of going further with him, start slowly and work up to full sex.
Pressure is a big thing for women when it comes to sex, he may not be pressuring you but inside you are sore and the last thing you want to do is have sex, but if you do other things to him, you will slowly see the sex drive creep back in.
If you not too shy visit a sex shop together and find things your partner likes and help his needs whilst still meeting yours. There is lots of things you can do for him without having sex all the time.
Good luck all.
Hope this helps a little.
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