ok so baby is here.
hes a healthy nine pounds and was delivered by cs, didnt even go into labour.
i read a heap of stuff and tried a heap of things some of those were, walking, sex, walking with one foot on the curb one on the path, pineapple, swinging on a swing, hot baths, curry, raspberry leaf, evening primrose, relaxation, and stress when we were told the chances of natural birth slim, internal exams twice, none of these helped me.
my doctor came and seen me in rcovery and told me even if i had waited another week i would still be where i was, he was sitting way too high and wouldnt have engaged.
she did talk to me about both boys heads being too big for my body, so i guess thats the way it is.
everyone i know who has had more than one cs told me they get easier, i know my recovery was a lot quicker with this one but hubby was home for four weeks to help out (do everything he was great) but as for being easier i think in some ways its harder cos second time round u got another child who needs u as well as bub. so needless to say when they told me not to lift anything heavier than my baby it went in one ear and out the other.
good luck to anyone trying to have a natural delivery second time round all the things i tried i found on the birthrites website, there was a lot more there i just wasnt to sure about some of them.