Hi All
I would like to hear from any one who felt like a failure after a cesear. I am sick to death of being brushed off by mums who had semi normal labours telling me that i have nothing to complain about i had a pain free childbirth and i am the lucky one.
I know labour hurts like hell, i've done that bit. I don't doubt that at all. I just felt like i could'nt complete lifes simplest goals which is reproduction. All i can see is that 100yrs ago i would have died and so would have my son. I've failed as a mother before i started. I am due to have our 4th child in 5 wks time and i would desperately love to give birth naturally but i don't hold any real hopes. Any one else out there feels the same. Or am i the only one.
from Stacey
I would like to hear from any one who felt like a failure after a cesear. I am sick to death of being brushed off by mums who had semi normal labours telling me that i have nothing to complain about i had a pain free childbirth and i am the lucky one.
I know labour hurts like hell, i've done that bit. I don't doubt that at all. I just felt like i could'nt complete lifes simplest goals which is reproduction. All i can see is that 100yrs ago i would have died and so would have my son. I've failed as a mother before i started. I am due to have our 4th child in 5 wks time and i would desperately love to give birth naturally but i don't hold any real hopes. Any one else out there feels the same. Or am i the only one.
from Stacey
Stacey, Tas, 4 boys