Congrats on your twin pregnancy. You are very lucky its not something that everyone gets to experiance. Your journey will be an amazing one. Its so cool when they are moving around later on, just amazing.
I currently have 5 month old boy/girl twins, my youngest was 3 at the time. I was so worried about how I would go, however the twins were number 4 and 5 for me also. Wow where to start.
I found that the first 3 months were a breeze, I had been told its the hardest also but I was lucky as they were really good sleepers and I only had to get up between 3 and 4 am for a feed once I got them into a routine and tought the little girl to go back to sleep after the 4am feed lol. It only took about a week or 2 I suppose. I am still breast feeding them both, I found that easier to start with also. I feed them both at the same time. A little hard to get used to but once your used to it, so worth it as when they do feed seperatly you do feel like you are feeding all the time, and do you remember the first couple of weeks of bf your son and the feeds used to take soooooo long lol.
I also found it really hard to find information on twin pregnancies or just being pregnant with twins. I wonder why that is. You could try and find out if there is a Multiple Birth Association meeting in you area, I live on the Central Coast NSW and it broke up not long before the twins were born unfortuately.
I find it a little harder now, as they are both so different. The little girl doesn't sleep as well as the little boy, he is happier, and he doesn't crave as much attention LOL. However they are both so good I am very lucky. Most of the time now I do seperate feeds as their needs are now so different but they still usually wake at the same time at night so I still feed them together then, usless we have a really bad night, luckily that doesn't happen to often.
I am also hoping that when they are older they aren't as demanding as they will have each other. I know when my older girls went off to school, my toddler boy was so lonely and used to get up to mischief when I wasn't looking lol, I am hoping it will be different with the twins as they will always have each other. So fingers crossed it works out lol. I no they even love to talk to each other now.
I was so worried about loving one more than the other or not being able to spend time with them, I can't believe how wrong I was, instantly inlove with both of them from the first second. You will always get to spend a little time with each one on their own as you comfort the one thats upset. When they were a bit older and staying awake more I used to lay them on my bed, they just love to be talked to and smiled at. My toddler boy, just loves the babies, thinks he is soooo special as he has 2 babies. I just tried to involve him when I first bought them home, he helped with their first bath etc. I would put on his favourite tv shows in the lounge room with me so he was sitting beside me while I was feeding the twins.
Ok better leave it there lol. Sorry if I have bombared you. I will be back to check on you and if there is anything else you want to know just ask. It is really hard, especially some days lol, but so worth it, I now feel so special as I get to experiance something that is not all that common, oh the last piece of advice, beware EVERY time you take them OUT lol, you can't take a step without being stopped, you actually start to feel like a bloody movie star but everyone just wants to know about the babies, it gets a little frustrating but people don't see it every day lol, so I just smile and answer their questions and TRY to get away quickly lol. Good luck with that. Where as the novely wore off after a couple off weeks with my single babies, Im am led to believe it never wears off with TWINS lol, if I go to the shops without them, I get annoyed, NOBODY WANTS TO KNOW ME. LOL.
Ok best of luck hun, try and get as much rest as you can.