Sorry to hear you are having a few problems with Joel... since you are sick of everyones opinions and advice I wont offer any. But if you are really concerned or it is getting worse take him to your GP or go to your local pharmacy and explain the symptoms to the pharmacist. They should be able to offer you some more comforting advise... and don't let the clinic make you feel silly for your concerns as a first time mum!!! Trust your instincts, mum's are usually right!!!
As for all the travelling you are doing... all I can say is good luck and I hope it all runs smoothly for you and Joel!
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Make sure you take some time out for yourself as a new mum you can't afford to go nuts worrying about everything... you will be in my thoughts and I hope to hear from you soon.
Have a wonderful first mother's day too.
Best wishes always,