Ugh - just a vent! Soooo sick of people telling me how huge I am - I'm 24weeks. I seem to carry bigger than some people & although I'm eating healthier than I did my last pregnancy, I'm still putting on weight. 11kgs so far sad I'm reasonably ok with that - not a lot I can do about it, but seriously people - you don't comment on a bigger person, why comment just coz I'm pregnant!! Grrrr angry
Then I get comments on my son - "is he small for his age? I don't mean it rude, but he's very tiny." Well, if you don't mean to be rude, just don't bloody say anything!! So what if he's not tall!! He's perfect just the way he is! Seriously people - keep your mouth shut!! angry
Think I'm a bit sensitive today wink LOL
I totally feel for you as I am experiencing exactly the same thing!!
I'm 20 weeks pregnant today and have put on 11kgs so far. Being quiet small to begin with (52kgs), I get everybody telling me how huge I am. Like you, when pregnant I carry big, even though baby ends up being a small to average size. I always get the "you must be carrying twins" talk.
Yes I have a small DS too (23months, 11kgs). I have learnt to just ignore the small comments now and just say he takes after his mummy! Cause I know that he is a healthy boy, its just genetics. Every now and then I get upset and blame myself, thinking I am doing something wrong, but what can I do?? Thats just him!
I may sound a bit stalkerish on this one, but I noticed a thread you started a while back on expecting another boy and people asking if you were upset about it. HA! I am constantly getting this off people too!! I'm expecting another boy and am over the moon!
Wish people would just shut up too.