Im currently 11, nearly 12 weeks pregnant and on saturday just past i had my first midwife appointment.. As i was getting all excited, the midwife was asking questions, i answered them. Then came to the issue of my weight and height. She weighed me, and measured me and put it through the computer then she said........ Sorry you cant have your baby here, you'll need to go somewhere else! Omg! i was horrified, and thinking how can a hospital refuse you?
My weight was 119. and my height was 164 cms so therefore my BMI was 44. their cut off point is 40...
This is not my heaviest and when i have this baby i plan on losing weight.
But are hospitals allowed to do this?..
This was a different hospital to where i had my first child, but i never gained this much weight when i was pregnant. It was after she was born..
I dont know how to feel... Im not embarrassed about my weight. I dont care what people think. but i do know that when ive had my baby i'll lose it.
Sorry ladies but i dont need to be criticized about my weight.
My partner loves me and when i told he he said i wasnt fat. it was nice for him to say that but i know i am...
Thanks for Other comments out there.