Mum is very clucky and maternal especially with other peoples babies.
Mum is also a very strong person, as in she thinks her way is not only the right way but the only way & I struggle to stand up to her and say no.
It is mine and my fiances first child and he is great and wants to be involved in any way possible in my pregnancy. I can't complain at all with him - sickening I know!!
I have had a very easy pregnancy and have been very lucky, the only issue if you could call it that is that we have a big baby and have only been sent to one extra appointment and a growth scan, which naturally I wanted my Fiance with me & he wanted to be there too.
His Mum is coming over from overseas to stay with us for 10 days a few days before my due date & now Mum is starting to sound very jealous about it. Mum lives 5 mins around the corner from us.
Also when Mum was pregnant with me she was a solo parent and my father wanted nothing to do with her pregnancy, so her Mum was able to go to most of the appointments.
Also at the time I was born Mum had a lot of people in the room, but at the hospital we are having baby at they are quite strict on only 2 support people in the room at a time. I asked Mum early on in my pregnancy if she would like to be there during the birth. Which she said yes.
Now she is acting like she will get kicked out for DF's Mum. Which is so not the case. The plan is for the three of them DF, Mum, and MIL to "tag team" during labour, with Mum and DF in the room once I've started pushing, The birthing suite has a nice "waiting room" type area that is only seconds from the actual Delivery room.
What I was wondering is how involved were other ladies Mums during their pregnancy's?