Ok so we are ttc at the moment but we already have 2 boys 8 and 6 years and we just lost our dughter at christmas time at 20 week. Both boys i came out with it as soon as the doc said yes and same with our girl.
But having a mc at 20 weeks i was shocked and upset and everyone kept asking these questions and saying i am so sorry etc and the whole thing through me off having another baby.
I told my hubby the other day when we do fall again i don't want anyone to know (exept the people who have to like our managers and mother etc) because that way if this happens again its only me, my hubby, my work and my mum and dad who will know and be their (as my mum takes my kids to school etc so i can work).
What are your thoughts on telling people after i have my 20 week scan? I want to tell them a nice way to not just hay we are having a baby in a couple of months.
Anyone done the same/
TTC a baby girl