I left this as a comment and then thought this was way too long so this is my lil title story of pregnancy and info i wish i had and the info of what i did get and i look back every pregnancy i have the older i get the more help people want to give who knows maybe it is the little hurdle i have had to go thru because this story is not just straight forward this is not out of any book this is mine and mine only

****This is Kind of like my Life story in a short version****

First of all i was 17 and pregnant with my first child which i had 3months after my 18th Birthday back in 2000 to the man i fell inlove with which i only met in Nov 99 so YES i was Young Very Young and i was so scared...
I did not have alot of support family was just not as close and i met some great new family members and i read lots of books and even watched a video which i must say i was not interested in it at all, at the time i loved the whole baby thing going and buying the outfits, getting everything ready, setting up a unit (house) getting all that ready, but in a couple of months into it all i wanted to do was focus on me..why can't it be just about me for one day that's all i ask? (maybe life was moving way to fast or i was way to young) but I wanted to buy something for me , do this! do that!, but as well in saying this i had an awesome lady that hit me back into reality and say yes you can have your day but you have to realise there is a tiny lil one on their way and they need you to be there for them every step of the way...

Wow i thought to myself what a very selfish person and went for my next ultrasound and found out yes i had too,My Beautiful Lil Boy was arriving and one very healthy lil one he was.. i'm one of those people that loves to know and wanted so badly to buy a color (so you can hate me if you like)...
In My Pregnancy i knew some things because yes i had read up on them and got tips off others but knowledge is great but at the same time you are who you are and you will do what you motherly instincts tell you , you have to focus on being there for your child and loving him or her lots and treasure every moment because its worth it............
Ok what is the deal with this Morning Sickness thing "what the hell" Why do they call it Morning sickness because no no no it was not that time of the day only...
and i remember the smell of food at the supermarket damn why do they not provide us with sick baskets?
But i must say when i was going thru this i knew what kind of to expect but it never works out the way the books say or you may plan it...

Things i would have loved to know back then...
*Morning Sickness
*Diabetis Beause i had it and i have to say this is hard....
*More Help from the Doctors after delivery they just treated me like i will just have more kids lol not very good teachers i must say, i will not name the hospital because each to their own but i think they need to support mums more in having there first baby and not just delivering and hand out brochures and say see you later..
*Breast feeding Imprtant i think and i think anyone new mum should atleast try it before not giving it a go
i have to say i tried many of times because in adelaide they are into this they made me try every hour but it was frustrating me because i was trying and not getting anywhere but they did not listen to me so this is where i feel they failed in supporting me..
in the end hours later my son was formular fed he was then Hungry...

*Anti Natal Classes i personally didn't like,
but like i say give it a go and see what you think i found it way to sickening with the images but people love that i did not return to that class..

Advice i can go on and on with what they should have told me or i wish i didnt know, but it is a whole new journey you will tae a big step into your life and i think you should have knowledge and be open minded in what people have to say but that does not mean you have to do what they say every person is diffrent and being a new mum i suggest you should try breast feeding, anti natal classes, try some things that people have given advce on..to new mum take every step as it comes and enjoy every moment because this lil one of yours will be your lil treausure forever....

My 2nd Pregnancy in 2008 was Perfect i was loving every moment and even more special!!!
my lil Boy now 8 years old was coming up to my belly and putting a hand on it and saying hello
and giving a kiss goodnight to his lil brother or sister inside...
Mornig Sickness galore this time around all day and all night...
My 14 weeks Diabetis test was clear and We where all excited everything was going so well until i went to my 21 week scan, there was something up and i could feel it straight away even worse when the dr left the room and came back in with 2 other drs my heart sunk straight away and told me what was happening with my lil one and they said his little heart had not developed properly and there was going to be a decision i had to make but first i had to go to the monash hospital and speak to the heart secialist which i must say i did and the monash hospital are awesome...

*Here in this situation i have to say i had all of the infomation and help i needed and not one doubt in my mind do i ever or have i ever questioned this...

My Lil Boy was Born on 21st of July 2008
4 months early and he is and always will be My lil Angel


My 3rd Pregnancy 2010
Olympia Amber-Lea Was Born and omg she is Absolutely Beautiful
She is Healthy, Beautiful and Growing up Fast
With this pregnancy i was monitored by two hospitals very close because of my previous pregnancy this means i had lots and lots of appointments blah lol,
but it is well worth it when you know all you want is the Best
I must say the two things i did have this time around was a really bad hip which i had to go to physio for and Gesational Diabetis again and this was even harder because it does not matter how much i walk or dont eat this much i dont smoke or drink but in the end my body does not cut down the sugar so easily so i have to work at it...But No Morning sickness yay ...

OUT of all of this i would say Gestational Diabetis is the main one that iwould want to not ever have but because it happens i wish i had more info on it and try a diffrent way in acheiving to cut down the sugar levels for me its hard but i get over it as soon as my babies are born...

This is My Short Version on my Life Story Feedback is nice if you like to leave any or maybe you have had something simular happen or maybe you want to say how much you hate this story let me know Miz K

P.s Oh how i wish i had My 3 lil ones Together