after 20min on the boob they have had all they are gunna have you dont need to sit there till your nipples bleed. They wont starve. I use to find myself sitting there 2hous later waiting for her to pull off (not gunna happen!) till someone told me the 20min rule. Such a relief.
I agree being able to say no is vital if only to give you practice for when they are older and touching power points, TV,cats food, dogs bottom......and on and on and on
DD 19/10/03 & Trainee Doula