If your DD or DS are misbehaving for eg. if they are touching something that they are not allowed and been told no a million times, or doing something they should be, what you do to when they ignore you. Do you tap there hand ?
What do you do???
My son is costing me a fortune he has broken 2 crystal sets and a glass bowl, and i will tap his hand and say no and he will just go back to it.