I have also been struggling with keeping up with everything and found that if I clean one room a day during the week (Mon-nursery, Tues-Bedroom, etc) while Emily has her nap and spend an hour or so after she goes to bed doing the everyday stuff (put on washing, dishes, etc) it makes it much easier. Emily spends time with her grandparents on Sunday afternoon, so I use some of that time to do big jobs like mopping, vacuuming and spring cleaning. My solution for no storage was to be really tough and throw out things that had not been used in the last 12 months and were not likely to be used in the next 6. Everything that could, then went into space bags and I still have some clutter in the big wardrobe (linen and stuff) but just need to buy shelves to put in there and it will be done. I looked up the Flylady website after someone recommended it on these forums and found some of that information useful.
Charlotte mum to Emily 27-08-03 & Lily 21-09-06