i know shes not a toddler anymore but i couldnt figure out anywhere else to put this.
hopefully there are some mums out there with older children that might be able to help me.
i have a 4 1/2 yr old little girl who has very difficult behaviour.
here are some of the difficult behaviours:-
cant sit still at all
doesnt do as asked
answers back constantly
very attention seeking
has smart aleck behaviour (smirks, comments etc)
i am completely aware that some of the above behaviours
are normal for her age but in her they appear to be very
i have just had a conversation with her kindy teacher about
how she is at school, and she appears to encounter
everything i do at home, so she does not change with the
change of environment. her teacher said she just cant sit
still, and is constantly getting up and going to the toilet or
anything so as not to sit still. apparently at mat session the
teachers aid has to sit behind her so as to keep her still. she
also said, she finds her looking at her as if to say "well, come
and tell me off then" sort of like spying i guess to provoke a
there is so many things she does that the teacher also
encounters and finds frustrating. in all, she said to me "she is
a very difficult child" "but she is also very smart"
i have found this also, i guess im just trying to cover all bases
to see if i can fix the problem, can anyone help me or offer
it will be very much appreciated.
Kristi 5 kids. www.familynfriends.forumwise.com