Thank you for that advise smile
She definately knows she has to go as she was TT fully before DD #2 arrived smile
She is getting alot better at wees but poos in a nappy/underwear so its only that we have to sort out
My DD is 3 yrs 4 mths and not fully trained yet. It took her months to get poo in the toilet. She still wets her knickers a little before she realises she needs to wee.
Is she doing poo in her knickers because she doesn't want to go to the toilet? OR because she doesn't realise she needs to go?
If its because she knows she has to go but refuses there is this method:
For 1 week allow her to poo in the nappy when she asks for one.
Next week allow her to have the nappy but tell her she must use it in the toilet room/bathroom.
Next week allow her to have a nappy and tell her she must sit on the toilet wearing the nappy and poo.
Next week is to give her a nappy with a hole cut out so the poo goes into the toilet.
The desired outcome is she will without the nappy.
If the 'plop' sound scares her then lined the toilet water with a wad of paper.
Some toddlers think poo is a part of themselves and pooing in to toilet is therefore scary. So lots of reassurance and talking about how its safe for the poo to go into toilet and she will still be the same after she has done it.